Posts Tagged ‘ expat ’

Dealing with people’s reactions

Dealing with people’s reactions

When you share your plans:  “I’m going to Italy for two (or three) months!” be pre­pared to han­dle the reac­tions.  You’ll find three main reactions.   1.The detrac­tors, who will try to tar­nish or take your dream.  (For exam­ple: “It is way too hot that time of year.”  “You really should not go alone.”)   2.The attach­ers, who will try to make your dream theirs.  I had one dis­tant rel­a­tive offer to stay with me for 2 of…

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Language skills

Language skills

Once you have deter­mined if you will be in the city or rural, and how close to usual tourism, you will know how much lan­guage train­ing you will need.   I highly rec­om­mend find­ing an immer­sion day for trav­el­ers before you arrive.  You can pick up tips from your fel­low trav­el­ers (I learned it was a wise invest­ment to buy a com­pass for trav­el­ing in the countryside!).   You may wish to sup­ple­ment this with CD courses or class­room…

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From away, Forestieri and Stranieri

From away,  Forestieri and Stranieri

Any­one who is not born in Maine is known as “from away.”  No mat­ter how many years you live in Maine, you will always be from away.  From away is relative–some folks are more from away than oth­ers, but if you are not Maine-born, you are for­ever from away. I was cross­ing Front Street in Port­land Maine with friends–one a true born and raised Mainer (who had left for Mass­chusetts, but she was not con­sid­ered from away)…

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Quotes

About play:
Play is an important part of finding voice, because it allows us to try on new selves, like costumes, with sanctuary. We can pretend to be, pretend to write as if, without committing. And often play allows us to discover our authentic self.
— Jill Hackett, Women, Voice, & Writing