Practical matters

About packing

About packing

Check out www.onebag.com .  This web­site has a good pack­ing list, as does Rick Steves’ web­site, www.RickSteves.com .  For more than a month, you may not be able to get every­thing in one bag, but it is a help­ful place to start!  And you will not lose your bag. Things that are either dif­fi­cult or impos­si­ble to find here in Italy, that you might miss from home: Med­i­cines and per­scrip­tions (Ritalin is not sold in Italy, for example)...

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Dealing with people’s reactions

Dealing with people’s reactions

When you share your plans:  “I’m going to Italy for two (or three) months!” be pre­pared to han­dle the reac­tions.  You’ll find three main reactions.   1.The detrac­tors, who will try to tar­nish or take your dream.  (For exam­ple: “It is way too hot that time of year.”  “You really should not go alone.”)   2.The attach­ers, who will try to make your dream theirs.  I had one dis­tant rel­a­tive offer to stay with me for 2...

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Dreams are one thing, having them another.

Dreams are one thing, having them another.

It sounds like it should be a sim­ple choice, when the oppor­tu­nity presents itself, to grab that brass ring. But it isn’t always. I first learned this when my daugh­ter asked for a trip to Europe with me as her grad­u­a­tion present from col­lege, des­ti­na­tion: any­where of my choice. I had never been to Europe, and I had always wanted to go to Ire­land. This dream was prob­a­bly pro­pelled by my great grandmother’s wish to either...

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Language skills

Language skills

Once you have deter­mined if you will be in the city or rural, and how close to usual tourism, you will know how much lan­guage train­ing you will need.   I highly rec­om­mend find­ing an immer­sion day for trav­el­ers before you arrive.  You can pick up tips from your fel­low trav­el­ers (I learned it was a wise invest­ment to buy a com­pass for trav­el­ing in the countryside!).   You may wish to sup­ple­ment this with CD courses or...

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Choosing your housing

Choosing your housing

Be clear about your pur­pose in going to Italy.  Write out a mis­sion state­ment, because as you drill down into details — this will come in handy often through the process.  You’ll find your­self check­ing back on your inten­tion, as you get to var­i­ous deci­sion points.   The first time I came to Italy alone was in 2005, for two months.  My mis­sion state­ment was: I want to expe­ri­ence liv­ing in a for­eign country—more rural, to...

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Some “getting ready” advice

Some “getting ready” advice

If you can pack up your house (or sub­let it, or swap houses with an Ital­ian fam­ily), the finances of the dream become sud­denly much more within reach.  Since mort­gage, or rent, is not due in the US, then you have these expenses to apply to your adven­ture.  Also, you can sus­pend your home phone and your US cell phone (if it does not have GSM 800/1900 global fre­quen­cies – more on this later).  And your...

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Ford: an outstanding foreign car

Ford:  an outstanding foreign car

Citta della Pieve, Chiusi, and Paciano (Umbria.) My Uncle Ross always owned a Ford, his whole life.  Every three years, he would trade  in his Ford Sta­tion Wagon, coun­try squire edi­tion (with the “wood” pan­els) for another newer one.  It was his farm and road trip car.  He and Aunt Verna would drive it from Penn­syl­va­nia to their Florida for their annual migration–snow birds, wisely escap­ing ice and heat­ing bills.  Uncle Ross deeply believed in the...

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Quotes

About play:
Play is an important part of finding voice, because it allows us to try on new selves, like costumes, with sanctuary. We can pretend to be, pretend to write as if, without committing. And often play allows us to discover our authentic self.
— Jill Hackett, Women, Voice, & Writing