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Women who run with the camels

Women who run with the camels

That is what co-owner Miranda Innes calls women who show up in at her Moroc­can B&B alone. Yet I would not rec­om­mend it for the fem­i­nine faint of heart.  A woman alone in a souk with her own pock­et­book in tow throws Moroc­can male con­cepts of where a woman should be into high dis­ar­ray and makes the polit­i­cally incor­rect Amer­i­can male con­struc­tion work­ers look like priests.  “Lus­cious Lips!”  “Hello Money!”  “Thank you;  no thank you; damn...

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Make me Harry Potter!”

“Make me Harry Potter!”

As I was installing a lightning bolt on this British lad's forehead, a la Harry Potter, his older brother watched carefully, and then signed up for a shooting star on his forehead: Harry Potter and Merlin as relatives! It was indeed a day full of magic. Once a year Paciano offers

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Gershwin and the Knights of Malta

Gershwin and the Knights of Malta

Mag­gione.  Open­ing night, in June. Built 9 cen­turies ago, between 1150 and 1170, the Cas­tle of the Knights of Malta is impec­ca­bly restored, and is the first cas­tle I have seen that I have ever wanted to live in.   The cypress trees are ancient and much taller than most you’ll see in Umbria.  They have been pro­tected by knights, bene­fac­tors and skilled gar­den­ers.  You walk into the main courtyard– its a bit older, only 15th century– and imme­di­ately smell...

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Dealing with people’s reactions

Dealing with people’s reactions

When you share your plans:  “I’m going to Italy for two (or three) months!” be pre­pared to han­dle the reac­tions.  You’ll find three main reactions.   1.The detrac­tors, who will try to tar­nish or take your dream.  (For exam­ple: “It is way too hot that time of year.”  “You really should not go alone.”)   2.The attach­ers, who will try to make your dream theirs.  I had one dis­tant rel­a­tive offer to stay with me for 2...

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Dreams are one thing, having them another.

Dreams are one thing, having them another.

It sounds like it should be a sim­ple choice, when the oppor­tu­nity presents itself, to grab that brass ring. But it isn’t always. I first learned this when my daugh­ter asked for a trip to Europe with me as her grad­u­a­tion present from col­lege, des­ti­na­tion: any­where of my choice. I had never been to Europe, and I had always wanted to go to Ire­land. This dream was prob­a­bly pro­pelled by my great grandmother’s wish to either...

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Italy is not a good place to experience suffering

Italy is not a good place to experience suffering

Every Christ­mas day, in the fondo of Palazzo della Corgna, the terzieri of Castello presents inspi­ra­tional scenes for the sea­son (called a pre­sepe).  It is Castello’s gift of the sea­son to the com­mu­nity.  Castello is one of three terzieri’s (a sec­tion of the town, with deep his­tor­i­cal roots).  Each terzieri has its own tav­erna and meet­ing place, as well as tra­di­tions.  For Castello, their green and black flags fly at Christ­mas to her­ald the open­ing of...

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Harry’s Bar

Harry’s Bar

Venice, Christ­mas Eve You leave the grand space of San Marco’s campo, with its four horses and St. Mark’s body, clipped as goods of war, now bring­ing cre­den­tial­iza­tion to the duomo. Walk along the water’s edge, and you’ll feel this stolen grandeur fade. Four stairs down step the plat­form closer to the water, where no doubt aqua alta splashes reg­u­larly when storms and high waters brew. Keep walk­ing, another block or two.To your left across the...

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Pasticceria GMB — sumptuous, delicious and playful

Pasticceria GMB — sumptuous, delicious and playful

Cas­tiglione del Lago (PG), Zona Indus­tri­ale le Puc­cia­relli. In the mid­dle of an Ital­ian indus­trial zone, I found myself lis­ten­ing to an Omma­gio a Edith Piaf, sip­ping French wine (George Deboeuf Beaujolais-Villages), nib­bling deli­cious and beau­ti­fully ren­dered pas­ter­ies, and chat­ting with friends from Aus­tralia and Great Britain.   Manola Rosati was singing, and Eleonora Conti accom­pa­nied her on the piano. This pre­sen­ta­tion of music, wine and food was the gift of owner and mas­ter pas­try chef Michael Piselli who has cre­ated a delight­ful...

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From away, Forestieri and Stranieri

From away,  Forestieri and Stranieri

Any­one who is not born in Maine is known as “from away.”  No mat­ter how many years you live in Maine, you will always be from away.  From away is relative–some folks are more from away than oth­ers, but if you are not Maine-born, you are for­ever from away. I was cross­ing Front Street in Port­land Maine with friends–one a true born and raised Mainer (who had left for Mass­chusetts, but she was not con­sid­ered from...

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Ford: an outstanding foreign car

Ford:  an outstanding foreign car

Citta della Pieve, Chiusi, and Paciano (Umbria.) My Uncle Ross always owned a Ford, his whole life.  Every three years, he would trade  in his Ford Sta­tion Wagon, coun­try squire edi­tion (with the “wood” pan­els) for another newer one.  It was his farm and road trip car.  He and Aunt Verna would drive it from Penn­syl­va­nia to their Florida for their annual migration–snow birds, wisely escap­ing ice and heat­ing bills.  Uncle Ross deeply believed in the...

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Quotes

About play:
Play is an important part of finding voice, because it allows us to try on new selves, like costumes, with sanctuary. We can pretend to be, pretend to write as if, without committing. And often play allows us to discover our authentic self.
— Jill Hackett, Women, Voice, & Writing